إلى NominalShower70 :They'd be hard in a perfect hookup, but given the anon nature and the fact the tops probably are either married or with a partner, they're nervous. Nervousness=lack of erection. Guarantee you once their penis presses against the warm, soft skin of the bottom's anus, the tight feeling of the sphincter as their head slips in, the smell of the anus (always gets me super-hard) and they become erect and can penetrate successfully. Those same sensations also cause the top to ejaculate quickly, too.
Disagree. I've always done bareback and anon is too risky. Full disclosure - I topped anon once back in the early 90s, but he was married and was staying in the hotel with his family. He came to my room, and I sucked him off first, then fucked him. I didn't last very long, he was very tight.
I never had the balls to rent a room but I once gave 5 different guys head in my garage in one night. One brought his buddy and I almost lived my dream of getting spit roasted but he chickened out. I still loved having 5 different dicks cumming in my mouth in a 3 hour span. Im hard thinking about it.